Sometimes you have to Detoxify your body and your relationships

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Lately, I have been thinking about relationships, I have been counseling others, reading about relationships and basically surveying the relationships I share with others. Despite the type of relationship I have determined that not all relationships are deemed healthy. A) Though we may have to be in a relationship with someone we may not personally like them, however based on the context of the relationship you may have to deal with them. So how to deal with that person at work with whom you can’t get along? Understand that it is ok to have single relationships with someone though you work well together you don’t have to be friends. The moment you know this and understand this it will detoxify your mind and body of unhealthy relationships

20140618-081003-29403558.jpg B)So you grew up with someone or you were the closest of friends with someone and overtime you realize the relationship is changing, you don’t see much of each other and when you do then there are disagreements about everything or almost everything. You are trying to save your friendship because you have history together, you try to hash it out however, it’s more arguing and hurting of each other’s feelings than ever, then guess what despite the years or time invested in this relationship understand that you will sometimes have to let go of some people that are familiar by giving them the latitude they need. Yes it may be very emotional as we are humans and we love familiarity yet everyone that starts with you will not finish with you some people become toxic you then have to detoxify that relationship.

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C) Sometimes you have your family members and you love them so much however, every time you get together at family functions it turns into rage, anger and family feuds. They always have something negative or hurtful to say to someone and it’s just always upsetting to one or more other family members. They sometimes do activities which are not acceptable by the family which makes them look for negativity to highlight at family events or just talk about unnecessary things which are likely to hurt the feelings of some family members. Ooh yes you need to detoxify yourself of this relationship, observe the activities of your family member overtime to ensure that it is truly a toxic relationship. Review the relationship to see why the family member is always acting out and inflicting emotional pain. Reason with yourself : is there a way you can reach this person, in getting them to understand the repercussions of their behaviors? If not then guess what, act slowly but surely remove yourself by telling your family member that being family is not a choice but maintaining a toxic relationship is a choice so unless they can curve or change their behaviors then by all means you will need to dissociate from their company.

20140618-084741-31661554.jpg While working on detoxifying your relationships it is also super awesome for you to do an emotional self evaluation to ensure that you have not become toxic as well. Sometimes it’s easier to recognize the toxins in others unlike those within yourself. Be honest when you critique yourself as you too can become toxic and vulnerable based on situations. If you are content with the person you are and the way you treat your friend, family, coworkers and every relationship then by all means congratulations you are engaging in success relationships. If you are not content then reexamine you and your relationships its time to detoxify.

Simply Jyune Ensemble and Detox drink:
Black career suit-BCBG
Ocean Green career Blouse-The Limited
Ocean Green open toes pumps- BCBG generation
Black and White envelope clutch- BCBG generation
Black retro readers-Ray Ban
Ocean a Green and Black belt-gifted
Faux pearl jewelry-pearl rock by Traci Lynn Jewelry
Lip color-beach bum by Mary Kay

🍹🍹Detox Drink🍹🍹
2organic Granny Smith apples
1bunch of kale
2stalks celery
1 small piece of ginger
1 cucumber
1 lemon
****Be prepared for the detox process of your body when you make this drink. As the season changes we should detox our bodies from all the remaining toxins from the foods we eat on a daily basis.

πŸ˜„Detoxify your relationships, your mind and your body for a healthier life 😜

Thanks for stopping by and loving on me.

Simply Jyune

Mental Health Awareness- 10 Ways to Boost Mental Health and Relieve Stress

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Hello Loves,
It’s the end to the week and a start to the weekend. Was it a great week? Or is it the start to a great weekend? well it depends on your mental health status!! The way we do things and our behaviors are shaped by our mental health status. Healthy minds create healthy thoughts and shapes our behaviors accordingly. Therefore if you are mentally well then by all means you will feel better physically, contribute more to society and maintain healthy behaviors. It is important to acknowledge or recognize when someone around us has a mental health problem as early detection and treatment can save them from further treacherous behaviors. The simplest of things or events may push someone to the edge or so close that they develop anxiety attacks, panic attacks, sleeplessness, sweat, irregular body temperature, withdrawal from others, incoherent speech, salad talk, attraction to dangerous behaviors. Mental health education and awareness should be taught in school to everyone, as well as posters should be everywhere to encourage maintaining good mental health. After all it is vital to our success in life so many shortcomings can be attributed to a break down or shift in routine without any source of support.

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Mental health and Counseling knows no color so no matter what your ethnicity there is counseling available for you. Even more so the diversity of today’s society will even afford you a mental health counselor of the same skin or online counseling service without face to face interaction.
10 Ways to Boost Mental Health and Relieve Stress
1. Be open and accepting that things will not always be perfect.
2. Create an awesome team of people as your friends/source of support.
3. Maintain healthy loving relationships-everyone needs love.
4. Talk about issues or situations which are bothersome.
5. Know and understand the limitations of your fears.
6. Eat foods which promote health and wellness.
7. Incorporate at least 30 minutes of exercise in your day (walk is good).
8. Get enough sleep- believe it or not insufficient sleep impacts functioning.
9. Create balance in your life and work.
10. Be aware and avoid stressful situations, seek help at the time of the onset or shortly afterwards.

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Ensemble:-looking good means feeling good
Jersey sweater dress~ BCBG Generation
Blue faux fur vest~ Designer Consigns Atlanta
Blue pointed heel boots~ Charles David
Blue bow purse~ Kate Spade
Silver San Tropez jewelry~ Traci Lynn Fashion jewelry
Lip gloss~ Lip gloss by MAC
It is certainly true that when you are feeling good then you are going to look good as good mental health is wealth so create healthy friendships and remember having a friend means being a friend.

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Spotted at Footprints Cafe in Lawrenceville GA, Sunday Evening Jazz with Radio Dj Rene Miller
Let’s focus on increasing mental health awareness in our communities…….thanks for stopping by

πŸ™‚ Simply Jyune πŸ™‚
Your fashionable School Psychologist and Blogger

Shades of blue & gold

Hey Lovely Peeps,
December 5th! Another lovely morning and of course more birthday celebrations. The weather was much better than I thought it would be yesterday as we didn’t get the forecasted rain. Oh well better for me, I got to wear shades of blue and gold. While in New York City last week I came across these gold booties by Michael Kors in my old closet and they made me chuckle quite a bit. These gold booties were bought during my depressive years working a job that I hated; wherein all I did was shop at lunch time instead of eating, for expensive pieces that I would perhaps never wear. Now I try to wear every piece as soon as I get them unless they are an investment piece I might have to wait a bit. I try staying away from dark colors to keep my mood in sync with the festive season. Shades of blue and grey because last night I was invited to a meeting and presentation at the American Red Cross headquarters and I thought going from day to night in a festive season requires color, glitz and glam. So for this occasion I mixed colors and fabrics which is always fun and stylicious especially when wearing glitter or shine.

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20121204-230543.jpg This holiday season chandelier earrings are a big hit for wear with almost everything especially your cocktail dresses and formal gowns. I can’t get enough of wearing chandelier earrings and glittery clothing they just seem so glam and makes any outfit seem fabulous.

Shades of blue and gold ensemble:
Royal Blue jeans~ Dollhouse
Shimmery block blouse~The Limited
Navy elbow patch blazer~ Zara
Gold booties~ Michael Kors
Snake print clutch~ BCBG Generation
Chandelier earrings~ Forever 21
Statement rose bracelet~ Forever 21
Sunnies~ Louis Vuitton
Lip Color~ Amp it up by MAC

The Limited and Zara are two of my favorite stores, I could buy one of every item in those stores and keep them for almost forever. Thanks for stopping by, hope you will enjoy shades of blue and gold.
Simply Jyune
xo